GUYS -- He's ready but is it too soon??

Met a wonderful guy this weekend at a charity art function. Spent most of the evening with him and his lifelong best friend (and his best friend's wife). We went out together afterwards. He paid for everything. Held the door. Total gentleman. Great conversation, spontaneity, and fun! And lots of flirting! I think his friends really liked me (and I liked them too!) At the end of the night, he walked me to my car and kissed me goodnight, asked me to have dinner with him sometime. He called me yesterday and asked me out. We are going bird watching at the botanical garden then dinner at my favorite restaurant. Thing is, even though we've met only once, I think he's ready to be with me. I'm crazy attracted to him too and would totally go there, but I'm worried it's too soon. We've only met once! What should I do????

GUYS -- He's ready but is it too soon??
follow your heart...if you are crazy about each other GO FOR IT!!! if it doesn't work out later just end it and let it be a ROMANTIC experience in your life~ don't hold back when you like/love someone or else you'll regret later
Reply:just enjoy the time together and if you will be with him, then you will! but you have to go out a little longer to truly know you want to be in a commited relationship with someone, so just have fun and patience, but if you both feel it and have the same conversation about being together, then by all means go for it! Its hard to find that spark with people, so hold on for dear life lol. hope it all works out!
Reply:He may be ready but just give some time. Keep dating for a while. You can see each other as much as you want and enjoy the magic of the newness. Enjoy the time of getting to know one another. How far are you willing to commit anyway?





He does sound nice but lets face it both of you need some time to discover if you are compatible. A relationship is easy when you are in the happy phase you also need to look at it when it is in a more real setting and how you react to one another.
Reply:Talk to him a bit more. See if the feelings stays after 3-4 dates. If it does, sit down with him, be completely open and honest with him, and how you feel, your fears about taking it to fast, and your hope that it will work out and that you want to take it fast. Ask him how he feels.





If you start a relastionship being open and honest completely it will always default to being open and honest. I think it should be introduced fairly early on in a relastionship. You might want to give him a chance to relax a second though, he is still trying to impress you.
Reply:Ge to know him better, there's no rush. He seems like a perfect gentleman and that's great, but like you said, you've only met once. Take things slow and build the relationship. Be sure to know his history too. You don't want to have a nasty run-in with an STD. Just wait, he's not going anywhere and he's obviously interested.





Good luck. =]
Reply:You sound like you are both adults like myself. I really do believe in love at first site. but I would not reccomend having sex right away, maybe some amazing makeout session like a teenager but I have found that a relationship that starts out all about amazing sex or even okay sex usual stays all about the sex and does n ot have much other substance to it and eventually dies out. Good luck
Reply:ummmm... i would stay away from any possible places that "it" may happen so you can have some time to decide if it's a crazy attraction of or its just a fling you dont need to waste your time on
Reply:if u feel it maybe try and ask him if he feels it too..theirs nothin wrong with exploring echother
Reply:Get to know him more!
Reply:hmmm....


Take your time and study him, all that glitters isn't gold!


I'm talking from experience.